Anonymous asked: What's your perfect wedding? Like, what do you have planned?

There is no way for me to answer this without sounding crazy. I was the little girl who dreamed about her wedding. Hell, I still am. So I’m just going to go full-on crazy and hope it doesn’t freak anyone out.

I think the most important part of a wedding is the ring because it will last forever, not just for the day of the wedding. Therefore, my ring will be big, sparkly, and Tiffany’s. I know that’s insanely expensive so I expect to have to foot some of the bill for this ring. That’s okay with me because an engagement/wedding ring is more than just a piece of jewelry - it’s a symbol of your relationship. Honestly, expensive rings show a lot of dedication to me. If you’re willing to spend that kind of cash on something, you’re probably in it with your whole heart and mind.

I don’t know where I’m going to live, but I think the venue will set the tone for a lot of what my wedding is. I know it’ll be an outdoor wedding. I hope for it to be playful, relaxed, and elegant without being fancy. I’d like to keep it small too - less than 100 people for sure, but I’d prefer around 75. My sister, Amanda, will be my maid of honor and my bridesmaids will be my cousin, Alicia, and my best friends, Alison and Jenna. I don’t know what I want my dress to look like which is what most people plan out first. I just know I want to look unbearably pretty. Jenna’s dad’s girlfriend owns a flower shop so I’ll probably buy all the flowers from them at wholesale prices. I tend to like all-white bouquets (peonies, roses, gardenias, daisies, etc) with a bit of greenery in them. But the wedding itself, both ceremony and reception, should have lots of flowers. Seriously, flowers everywhere. And Alison’s family owns a condo in Nicaragua which I think would be a lovely honeymoon destination. I tend to think details are really fun at weddings like serving lemonade in little mason jars during cocktail hour, pictures of us as a couple hanging from a clothing line, or having a photobooth set up.

Andddd that’s what I think about that. But, really, if all I could afford was eloping with my honey, I’d do that too. The person you’re with makes the marriage, not the wedding.